singled-out

Do you feel singled out?

We always feel singled out when struggles hit. That unsettling feeling of somebody else having it all while we are full of stress and unresolved problems. It can feel like we are the only ones who’s life turned out to be a big pile of poo….(like the memories of all those diapers!) Then we start…

How to begin your single life?

How to begin your single life?

I read once “Anxiety happens when we think we have to figure out all things at once”. I wrote this on a sticky note and posted it all over my house. I am a single mom now. A single, widowed mom. An immigrant-turned-US. citizen, single widowed mom. Wow, spelling this out, makes me wonder how…

Tribute to Survival

You left me with a freakin’ teddy bear. Yes, you exited and now I am laying in this bed with a teddy bear in my hand. I know you wanted to stay and raise these 2 amazing boys with me. I totally get it and yet you had to go. And I am still here.…